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I ordered mine right from melvinsreef.com
I am in east Brunswick 08816 not to far from you if you want to borrow it to see if it's worth the money for ya..
From the pictures it looks like you are suffering from some alge problems I would tend to lean towards the zoas getting aFfected by the alge maybe try and pull them out do a peroxide dip and see if maybe the open back up for you....
My old clown use to host my frogspawn all the time and I never had any heads pop off I think if it was from the clowns the heads would recede not pop off completely..
I've read about this happening before with both euphalia and acans apparently if they get upset enough they can pop themselves right off there skeloton. Not sure there is any way to reattach them maybe If you rubber band it back it will reattach itself